YAY. after i disable subtitles i gain around 15 sec from last play so now i can play around 1 min and 15 sec
anyway its over 22 hour here so tomorow i wil fill a bug report. i was lucky i keep on another partition ubuntu 9.04 so i am not totally screwed up; i will wait until someone from ubuntu will patch this.
like i said before thx alot again for your time.
dirty fix/workaround
seems after i pass to mplayer -noass and i DON'T rewind or change fullscreen/windowed mplayer it's somehow stable (in a nutshell start movie fullscreen and enjoy the movie). i tested only a few minutes which is far more than my previous attempts
